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Love Thy Going Off/On The Derech Child With All Thy Heart – Parshas Pekudei – Rav Mordechai Burg
March 15, 2024 Love Thy Going Off/On The Derech Child With All Thy Heart – Parshas Pekudei – Rav Mordechai Burg

וַיְהִ֗י מְאַת֙ כִּכַּ֣ר הַכֶּ֔סֶף לָצֶ֗קֶת אֵ֚ת אַדְנֵ֣י הַקֹּ֔דֶשׁ וְאֵ֖ת אַדְנֵ֣י הַפָּרֹ֑כֶת מְאַ֧ת אֲדָנִ֛ים לִמְאַ֥ת הַכִּכָּ֖ר כִּכָּ֥ר לָאָֽדֶן: וְאֶת־הָאֶ֜לֶף וּשְׁבַ֤ע הַמֵּאוֹת֙ וַֽחֲמִשָּׁ֣ה וְשִׁבְעִ֔ים עָשָׂ֥ה וָוִ֖ים לָֽעַמּוּדִ֑ים וְצִפָּ֥ה רָֽאשֵׁיהֶ֖ם וְחִשַּׁ֥ק אֹתָֽם: One hundred talents of the silver were used for casting the sockets of the Holy and the sockets of the dividing curtain; one hundred sockets out […]

Raising Children to Believe In Themselves – Parshas Vayakhel – Rav Mordechai Burg
March 7, 2024 Raising Children to Believe In Themselves – Parshas Vayakhel – Rav Mordechai Burg

וּלְהוֹרֹ֖ת נָתַ֣ן בְּלִבּ֑וֹ ה֕וּא וְאָֽהֳלִיאָ֥ב בֶּן־אֲחִֽיסָמָ֖ךְ לְמַטֵּה־דָֽן: And He put into his heart [the ability] to teach, both him and Oholiab, the son of Ahisamach, of the tribe of Dan. (Shemos 35:34) One of the more common questions that I have received throughout my Chinuch career is, “Does Hashem really care if I (fill in […]

Jewish Parenting: An Obligation, Responsibility, and Challenge – Dr. Chaim Y. Botwinick
March 5, 2024 Jewish Parenting: An Obligation, Responsibility, and Challenge – Dr. Chaim Y. Botwinick

As we know, the mitzvah (obligation) to procreate is found in the Torah, as it states Peru U’revu – “Be fruitful and multiply” (Genesis, 1:28). This very first mitzvah in the Torah was addressed to both Adam and Chava, and then once again to Noah. It represents one of the most critically important mitzvot conveyed […]

Key Phrases to Encourage Your Child to Make Healthy Food Choices – Mrs. Adina Soclof
February 29, 2024 Key Phrases to Encourage Your Child to Make Healthy Food Choices – Mrs. Adina Soclof

When it comes to my kid’s eating habits, I felt like I had done everything wrong. My kids were picky eaters and I vacillated between bribing them to eat and giving up and just letting them eat what they wanted. I also went back and forth between, keeping healthy foods in the house and then […]

Parenting the Stiff Necked Child from the Stick Necked Nation – Ki Tisa – Rav Mordechai Burg
February 28, 2024 Parenting the Stiff Necked Child from the Stick Necked Nation – Ki Tisa – Rav Mordechai Burg

וַיֹּ֥אמֶר יְהֹוָ֖ה אֶל־משֶׁ֑ה רָאִ֨יתִי֙ אֶת־הָעָ֣ם הַזֶּ֔ה וְהִנֵּ֥ה עַם־קְשֵׁה־עֹ֖רֶף הֽוּא: And the Lord said to Moses: “I have seen this people and behold! they are a stiff necked people. (Shemos 32:9) וַיְמַהֵ֖ר משֶׁ֑ה וַיִּקֹּ֥ד אַ֖רְצָה וַיִּשְׁתָּֽחוּ: וַיֹּ֡אמֶר אִם־נָא֩ מָצָ֨אתִי חֵ֤ן בְּעֵינֶ֨יךָ֙ אֲדֹנָ֔י יֵֽלֶךְ־נָ֥א אֲדֹנָ֖י בְּקִרְבֵּ֑נוּ כִּ֤י עַם־קְשֵׁה־עֹ֨רֶף֙ ה֔וּא וְסָֽלַחְתָּ֛ לַֽעֲו‍ֹנֵ֥נוּ וּלְחַטָּאתֵ֖נוּ וּנְחַלְתָּֽנוּ: And Moses hastened, bowed […]

Helping our Kids Emotionally Regulate (Part One) – Rabbi Dr. Dovid Lessin
February 28, 2024 Helping our Kids Emotionally Regulate (Part One) – Rabbi Dr. Dovid Lessin

Emotional coaching did not appear on the list of jobs we thought we were signing up for when deciding to become parents. We were aware of the physically draining stuff – changing diapers, schlepping strollers, getting food on the table (cereal for dinner counts), and providing chauffeur services to a hundred activities in the span […]

Showing Our Children our Proverbial Tzitz – Maintaining a Focus on Life with Hashem – Rav Mordechai Burg
February 23, 2024 Showing Our Children our Proverbial Tzitz – Maintaining a Focus on Life with Hashem – Rav Mordechai Burg

וְהָיָה֘ עַל־מֵ֣צַח אַֽהֲרֹן֒ וְנָשָׂ֨א אַֽהֲרֹ֜ן אֶת־עֲוֹ֣ן הַקֳּדָשִׁ֗ים אֲשֶׁ֤ר יַקְדִּ֨ישׁוּ֙ בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל לְכָל־מַתְּנֹ֖ת קָדְשֵׁיהֶ֑ם וְהָיָ֤ה עַל־מִצְחוֹ֙ תָּמִ֔יד לְרָצ֥וֹן לָהֶ֖ם לִפְנֵ֥י יְהֹוָֽה: It shall be upon Aaron’s forehead, and Aaron shall bear the iniquity of the holy things that the children of Israel sanctify, for all their holy gifts. It shall be upon his forehead constantly to […]

Making Our Homes Into a Mikdash Me’at – Parshas Terumah – Rav Mordechai Burg
February 16, 2024 Making Our Homes Into a Mikdash Me’at – Parshas Terumah – Rav Mordechai Burg

בְּטַבְּעֹת֙ הָֽאָרֹ֔ן יִֽהְי֖וּ הַבַּדִּ֑ים לֹ֥א יָסֻ֖רוּ מִמֶּֽנּוּ: The poles of the ark shall be in the rings; they shall not be removed from it. (Shemos 25:15) Parshas Terumah begins with the Halachos of the Aron in the Mishkan. While the Aron was not the only vessel in the Beis HaMikdash to have poles (the Shulchan […]

Discipline with Love – Parenting in the Parsha – Rav Mordechai Burg
February 9, 2024 Discipline with Love – Parenting in the Parsha – Rav Mordechai Burg

כִּ֤י תִקְנֶה֙ עֶ֣בֶד עִבְרִ֔י שֵׁ֥שׁ שָׁנִ֖ים יַֽעֲבֹ֑ד וּבַ֨שְּׁבִעִ֔ת יֵצֵ֥א לַֽחָפְשִׁ֖י חִנָּֽם: Should you buy a Hebrew slave, he shall work [for] six years, and in the seventh [year], he shall go out to freedom without charge. (Shemos 21:2) וְאִם־אָמֹ֤ר יֹאמַר֙ הָעֶ֔בֶד אָהַ֨בְתִּי֙ אֶת־אֲדֹנִ֔י אֶת־אִשְׁתִּ֖י וְאֶת־בָּנָ֑י לֹ֥א אֵצֵ֖א חָפְשִֽׁי: וְהִגִּישׁ֤וֹ אֲדֹנָיו֙ אֶל־הָ֣אֱלֹהִ֔ים וְהִגִּישׁוֹ֙ אֶל־הַדֶּ֔לֶת א֖וֹ אֶל־הַמְּזוּזָ֑ה […]

Parenting in the Parsha – Yisro – Rabbi Yair Menchel
February 2, 2024 Parenting in the Parsha – Yisro – Rabbi Yair Menchel

Parshat Yitro Sibling rivalry is something that exists in every home, it started in the תורה when the first sibling was born with קין and הבל. The reason it exists in every home is because it makes sense – the minute a new child is brought into the family, it immediately causes a child to […]